So, he's been texting you non-stop, but still no sign of a real date? Let's turn the tables and get that fixed!
The first step is to put a pause on the endless texting. Sure, you can engage in conversations for a week or two, but if he hasn't made a move to ask you out, it's time to take action. Don't worry; it's not as complicated as it seems.
Here's a powerful strategy: Stop messaging him altogether. But before you do, drop a hint that will make him realize your worth.
Send him a message like this:
"Hey there! I've been enjoying our conversations, but I'm really swamped with my schedule and can't spare much time for texting. However, I'd love to meet up with you in person. If you ask me out, I can definitely make some time for that 😊"
By expressing that you value spending quality time together more than endless texting, you're sending a clear message. You're letting him know that if he wants the opportunity to spend time with you, he'll need to put in the effort and take the initiative to plan a date.
Now, here's the crucial part: If he fails to step up and continues to engage in aimless texting without making any real progress, it's time to take a stand. Politely let him know that you're too busy to engage in further texting and don't invest any more energy in the conversation. Don't waste your precious time with a texting buddy who won't make an effort to take you out.
This technique works wonders, especially when you're navigating the world of online dating platforms like Tinder. Shockingly, studies have revealed that around 30% of Tinder users are married. Yes, you read that right – that's 1 out of 3 users! Implementing this strategy becomes an essential test to filter out those who aren't serious about meeting in person.
Show them that you mean business and deserve more than just a texting companion. Let them know that if they want to be part of your life, they need to demonstrate their commitment by making the effort to take you out on a memorable date. You're worth far more than being confined to a screen.
So, are you ready to take charge and see who steps up to the plate? It's time to elevate your dating game and prioritize genuine connections that flourish beyond mere texts.
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